“Life is about trusting your feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories, learning from the past, and realizing people change.” – Unknown
Life has a way of providing us with raw materials of the things we wish and desire so as to be able to make what we want out of it but so many times we fail to realize this, we subject ourselves to see only what’s limited to our sight rather than engage the process of thought and make the most of what life has provided us with.
Often times, we want our desires to come to us in their desired state, we want it ready made and fit for consumption but fail to realize that as to every dream, there is at least a work to be done and a step to take in achieving our desires.
Life is a process, a process mostly experienced in stages, with each stages having similar features which is change.
Love makes life worth living and a life without love is a life that lacks happiness.
Feelings are the connecting dots between life and love. Without life, there can be no feeling and without feelings, love can never exist.
I know life is filled with ups and downs, lefts and rights, rights and wrongs, happiness and sadness, it all comes naturally to the living either influenced or not but what shouldn’t come up at all is in the face of all these, you should never be caught playing on peoples emotions nor leave them in the dark as to where they stand with you.
As with all equations, every issue, feelings and emotions has got a solution, you either accept or reject. Never leave an issue unsolved.
If you ain’t clear about it, ask questions. If you don’t want it, make it known. If all you want is for it to be a joke, state it. Never put a friend in the dark, don’t make guessing the only option for the other party. When you change, let it be known, don’t hide it and don’t pretend to be who you used to be.
Life’s equation is easy, simple and straight forward, you are either happy or sad, depending on how you see your cup but never complicate it by bringing in the unknown.