What does not kill you, makes you stronger.
Over the years, I have learnt that a thing should not get you down twice except it’s getting you on your knees to talk to God.
Each trial comes with a solution which you can only access by facing such trial. Endurance is the key through which you can stand for what you believe, face such trial and overcome it without compromising.
What you see as a trial today is simply the tool you need to face tomorrow. Experience they say is the best teacher and even as Christians, we feel comfortable to ask those who have gone through what we are going through for a way out of that situation since we know they have gone through it and are out of it, then they must at least tell us how they were able to overcome so we can also employ that method that worked for them and make it work for us too.
PS: “My friends, consider yourselves fortunate when all kinds of trials come your way, for you know that when your faith succeeds in facing such trials, the result is the ability to endure. Make sure that your endurance carries you all the way without failing, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” ~ James 1:2-4 (GNT)